'Learn to let go.'
I was amazed by her observation - how did she know about this ordeal of mine.
"Those old clothes, those old smses, those old files... They tell me enough. Let them go....You are not creating space for newer things in life."
Letting go is one of the most difficult thing for most of us. Just the thought of not having "that" as a part of your life anymore, is a heavy feeling…
To forgive and forget is not as easy as it is to type or say.
“But you should just set yourself free and LET GO. Because if you don't, you will wake up every morning hating him or her a little more… You will never be able to live it down. It will fester inside you like a silent predatory illness and ultimately bring everything down.
When you let go with grace and allow the person or thing their freedom towards their journey, you will never lose them, they will always visit you back. It is when you want to own another's time and space that you restrict them enough to move away and never return.
Letting go is a virtue of allowing.... allowing others a right to their own journey, freedom and learning.
And the tragedy is when you forgive someone in actual terms, when you forgive because you want to and because you have no insecurities or helplessness, that's when you realize that it doesn't matter. And then you also realize that you DON'T love anymore!”